Four Signs Of A Cheating Girlfriend
Posted: Wednesday, March 28, 2007
By Mark De Smit
Hey, whats up. I am a 21 year old man. I work at a restaurant with my girlfriend. I think shes cheating... i have no solid evidence.. she will often go "hang out" with friends rather than come hang out with me. She has an excuse for her not being able to come over quite often... she did cheat on her previous boyfriend.. with me, lmao.. but anyways when she is around me i suspect nothing.. she seems fine, loving, caring, except we are no longer as sexually active. Before we started dating we had sex for hours on a daily basis.. at times.. Now since we have been dating we have sex maybe... once a week.. sometimes.. She also denies everything when i confront her about it, and gets extremely upset saying "it irritates me when u say stuff like that." She is constantly texting.. yes i have snooped her phone before, but i have found nothing solid. I see a few texts of guys saying they love her.. but she never responds to them.. and if i bring up snooping her phone she would freak out saying i dont trust her blah blah... might break it off. I really am in love with this girl... but.. i dont need a cheater, doesnt matter about how i feel she will just continue to hurt me over and over. She hides things and tried to be sneaky, for instance my co-worker/friend told me she went to a party one night.. well she told me she went to sleep and then turned it around when i confronted her and said she drank with her mother at home... this guy doesnt lie either.. lol. Another example of a weird situation.. I went drinking with the same guy who mentioned the party.. it was his birthday! lol so we went out bar hoppin.. after were all hammered we all go out to perkins... imagine the irony .. my girlfriend is there with her friend, her friends boyfriend, and her friends boyfriends, friend. I have never been introduced to these people (this is her best friend btw) and she denied introducing me to them.. granted i was drunk but.. still? she told me earlier that night she would come over and have a little fun if u get my drift.. well she calls me at 3 am saying her car is broken... its a fairly new car and was in perfect condition earlier that day... then she turns it around saying she was just too tired. I did msg her best friend once on facebook when we were together but not official yet.. her best friend posted a comment on her facebook say "ohh your not single u need to change that!" figuring.. it was me she was talking about because according to my gf her best friend knew about us. i msgd her saying "yeah lol i havent asked her out yet, but i plan on it!" and got the reply "no you freak im talking about my boyfriends brother! leave her alone blah blah" then my gf ended it with us. A short time later i asked her to be my girlfriend and it kicked off from there. I dont know what to think but a little advice from someone who knows whats going on would greatly be appreciated. =)hey me and my gf have been togather 6 months we normally spent everyday togather. well this one guy ended up giving her his number and now all of a sudden she wants to go see her friend in a diff town who she only sees once and a while. so normally when shes with her girlfriends and i ask her if shes with another guy she will shove the phone in her friends face and have them prove it to me. well the point is i didnt get to see my gf for about 4 days the day i finnally got to see her she got a $%&*@$%& load of texts and said she had a counceling appointment but she was gonna see her friend afterwords who happens to live in the same town as the guy she lied to me about not texting. so i asked her to hand the phone to her girlfriend like she normally does and she would plus she was calling on a private number. wat i dont get is she was grounded and when they ungrounded her she was so excited to see me than all of a sudden she gets some texts and says after her appt shes seeing a friend i have no proof shes cheating but i have caught her lieing before wat should i do cuz i have a gut feeling she was with him.
I am affraid that my GF is cheating on me and i have been for a long time.We having been dating for over 2 years now, and I have heard things and thought of things about her that worry me.. She has been going home at night at 12 but when we started dating she was the one too stay out until 130 atleast even if she had work. Now she says its because she is tired and she "likes too sleep". now she is working 6-7 days a week, I only see her 6 hours a day and befor we would spend atleast 10-14 hours a day with eachother.She still wants too have sex with me but makes me do all the work.Previously in the relationship when i would try to get her too have intercourse she would say things like "FINE lets get it over with" or "I just dont feel like sex recently".I have heard things like, other people on her side of the phone when there should be no one.One time i over heard her or atleast i thought it was her talking to a friend and she said about me. This is just some guy im @#$%&*ing with...I have had many problems but she just tells me that i am being crazy and hearing things.Please ! HELP i want to marry this girl but only if I know that she is faithful. I just really hope im being crazy.Thanks for any response,M.
It Actually was. I was curious if your girlfriend pushes you away if that's a sign of cheating. But my girlfriend has shown at least three of the four signs. (Reduced Intimacy, Appearance, and Going out Excessive (Girl's Night). Thanks for the ad! :)
I had a girlfriend that I caught cheating through her text messages. I secretly installed a program on her phone which is a blackberry that backed up all her text messages the time she sent them. You can even send people text messages back. I found her texting this guy from this little town that she frequents visiting family. They were texting about how they had sex and he didnt finish but he liked it.Me I was so in love and didnt know what to do. My decision was difficult to do but I did it. I didnt say nothing about it and was thinking that it was something i was doing wrong.I did some research and came across this tinyurl dot com/3xazxsf and had her thinking about noone else but me.I check her text messages every now and then and all she talks to is her family so I know it worked. Well I have found her texting some of the same guys that she used to but it was to cut them off or just make them lose interest, by telling them flat out lies. Now were engaged and planning to marry in the winter early in 2011
This thread is so Steak Solsbery. I can't deal with the drama of relationships. Not for a while. It shouldn't have to hurt that much. I'd rather be alone than hurt that much. Loneliness sucks. They say love and trust go together, can't have one without the other. I can say i've been in love and had a lot of distrust. It did not mean i didn't really love her. It would be so nice to find a woman that i could love and trust. Have the intimacy, honesty, and closeness without a slap in the face repeatedly. Tough to look back on things, you start thinking it was your fault. I think part of a loving relationship is to understand your differences, quirks, problems and work together to make things better. Had no solid evidence but all the signs were there. Then, it all becomes your fault when you speak your mind. Why feed the lies being deceptive behind the other person's back? If you're thinking of cheating just get the courage to end the relationship before it comes to that. If it's that bad. Doing that to someone you supposedly care about, nothing hurts more than getting cheated on. That strong, sickening feeling that the one you love is seeing another person. It not only kills your relationship, it kills your pride, your confidence, everything you thought of that person. All the best feelings you ever had, then love is dead. I feel like dying sometimes.
I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years, lately she has been acting funny. She's been going out with friends and never text or calls me till later later... and when i ask why she gets so defensive. Today i found out she has been hanging out with a guy from the past that has tryed to brake us apart. I started questioning her, she says they been best friends since high school and it would be weird if they mess around???? am I missing something here... help me!
My GF cheated on me recently 1st time I forgive her - because I believe everybody deserve a second chance - But that was my biggest mistake in my life - How ever I never trust on her like I use - anyway long story short- She did it year 2008 and forgive and she did exactly the same month on this year 2010 , I cried because we have been together 10.5 years I never cheat on her I open my heart and I was so honest and loyal to her, but .....she destroyed all trust and faith , now I'm so scare to get touch with any women -
i accidently cheated on my girlfriend as i woke up with a random girl with no recolection. i dont think anyone will find out, considering this random girl was 6ft under in the desert by 8am that morning. i now realise that i love random girl instead. is it wrong for me to continue my relationship with random girl now that she has passed? I am also worried our relationship won't last due to decomposition. does anyone have some top tips about how to preserve a body? thanks guyshey mate. try salt and submerge her in alcohol. wrapping her like a mummy could work. best of luck..
I feel mi girl cheating on mi i txt her nd she also txts me back later later.. nd wen i used to say ily she will say it too but now she only says ok.. normaly i wouldn care if a gf cheats on mi but i hav fallen in love with my gf nd i don wana keep watseing mi time.. soo help me ???
My girlfriend cheats on me all the time. I am cool with it.
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