What is the Secret to male-female attraction?
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What causes someone to want to hang around someone else, or what causes them to feel the need to be with this person? I am over 50, and have not dated in years. I find it almost impossible to meet someone, unless you go to Bar's. What is it that causes a woman to want to hang around a man, or What is it that even brings them together? I go walking a lot in public, and am in stores and other places, I always say 'Hi, or Hello, to a gal that perks my interest, but they either go on by without commenting back, or they say; 'hi', and turn the other way and pass by quickly. Is there a secret in this day and age to meeting someone, besides the Bar rooms and internet dating sites?
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There is no more a secret now than there ever was-It's the same old game or story- The world may be compared to the metaphor of the Casino- and life to the games played within- you win some- you lose some. Sometimes you may hit the jackpot-With humans- we are first drawn by mutual physical attraction- then, ideally, we connect on the other two levels of the human trinity- mental and spiritual- which encompass our emotions, personality and character. As some people are want to compare this experience to buying a pair of shoes- If we are attracted to the looks of the shoes, we may try them on and walk around in them for a while- to see how they feel- but if they don't seem to conform to our feet, and cause more pain than breaking in would remedy, then we are wiser not to buy them, as we would eventually toss them into the back of the closet, because they don't fit us right. Some of us have a lot of shoes in the back of our closet- those who do not, are the ones who don't buy them if they don't feel right in the trying on. Some will try to wear them simply because they like the way they look, or because they're in style now- even tho they are miserable with the pain this causes.
Internet dating is de rigueur now because people have come to realize that it is wiser to get to know a person because of who they are inside, rather than just human physical attraction. Hope this helps you somewhat Robert; for that was my aim...............Always- Ella
Total Answers: 2, Total Page Views: 669.If I were to meet you while you are out walking in a store or other places, and you said hello to me, I wouldn't go on by or turn the other way- I would smile and say hello back- and maybe even wink at you- In your face, I see nothing that repells- but a lot that appeals....
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