Dating / Socializing (Personal)
How Do You Make Him/Her Want To Fall In Love? -
- Yangki Christine AkitengHuman emotions are really fragile and unless you understand when to act on a man or woman’s emotions, you’ll be in jeopardy, not only of failing to light the flame, but of destroying even the little spark of interest that was there in the beginning. Just like in any dance, timing is... Submitted 4 years 292 days ago.
Why Dating And Relationship Advice Does Not Work For You -
- Yangki Christine AkitengSo many single men and women spend a huge amount of time and energy trying to find that special someone to share a life with. Our appetite for a relationship fuels a billion-dollar industry of match-making services, lonely hearts ads, online dating, dating and relationship books, programs... Submitted 4 years 293 days ago.
Confessions Of Every Man's "Dream Woman” -
- Yangki Christine AkitengMany people ask me, “How did you become a Dating Coach?" From what I read, many Dating Coaches and Seduction Gurus become “experts" because they once were shy, ignored or had problems approaching and attracting the opposite sex. Others became “experts" because they found love after only one... Submitted 4 years 293 days ago.
- Yangki Christine AkitengIt’s a well known fact that if things are all moving along nicely and you are comfortable with each other, you both should know if you want to be exclusive without having to say it. But what if you are ready to move into exclusivity and he doesn't make a move or she doesn't seem to be thinking... Submitted 4 years 295 days ago.
10 Tested With Incredible Success Attraction Tips For Short Men -
- Yangki Christine AkitengIf you are a short guy having problems attracting women because you are conscious of your height, these 10 tips will increase your assertive confidence and may be even give you that sleek sex appeal. Tip # 1 – Teach yourself to be comfortable with being short This is hard for most... Submitted 4 years 297 days ago.
Creating Instant Attraction With A Handshake -
- Yangki Christine AkitengIn my article: Is Your Handshake Making Or Killing Instant Attraction (see articles section of my website), I listed 6 ways that a seemingly simple and straightforward handshake can create or kill attraction. A well-executed handshake is one of the best skills you can cultivate to ensure... Submitted 4 years 299 days ago.
Is Your Handshake Creating Or Killing Instant Attraction? -
- Yangki Christine AkitengMost people are blissfully unaware of the very subtle energetic messages their hands communicate about them and how those very brief seconds of physical contact could mean the difference between a great first date and one that is doomed even before it starts! In just five seconds or less... Submitted 4 years 302 days ago.
9 Proven Ways To Get Your Man To Emotionally Open Up To You -
- Yangki Christine AkitengThere is an African saying: the bigger the heart, the more someone tries to hide it. While some men react to their emotional/sensitive side a little super sensitively, most men react in a distant/aggressive/dominant way to cover up their more gentle side. By simply approaching things... Submitted 4 years 306 days ago.
15 Strong Signs He Or She Is In Love With You -
- Yangki Christine AkitengMany of us know how it feels to be rejected, not to be wanted and not to be loved enough. And many of us stay on guard, protecting our hearts and missing the greatest gift of all because we are sitting on the fence of feelings. What does it feel like to be loved? And how do you know if a... Submitted 4 years 311 days ago.
Why Women Leave Good Guys For Guys Who Are Not Good For Them -
- Yangki Christine AkitengOne of the questions I get asked so often is “Why do women choose unstable losers (alcoholics, womanizers, partiers, emotionally wounded, etc.) over stable, "good guys" like me? My answer is: It is the "Call of the Wild" within all of us. Ask 100 women what they consider desirable in a... Submitted 4 years 325 days ago.
We have all been there. We have stood in the street, in a room, or on a mountaintop and experienced a scent that took us back to a memory. A scent can take us to a memory as if we were right there once again. A fragrance might cause us to remember a particular boyfriend or girlfriend, or an event... Submitted 5 years 207 days ago.
My Next Boyfriend Won't Have This Problem . . . -
- Octavia HansenWhen guys would talk about their "EX", I would talk about my "NEXT." Whatever it was, my next boyfriend would not have that problem I was sitting through then. I used to date . . . a lot. Let me say that again. I used to date A LOT. And even though people say you learn from life experiences... Submitted 44 days 18 hours ago.
Til Death Do Us Part? Hmmm, Are You Gonna Die Soon? -
- Octavia HansenI'm not really the marrying kind. Since I have NEVER felt maternal, I don't see any need for marriage. I'm supposed to outlive men anyway, and men in my age group is looking for some young cutie, even though these are the same men who couldn't satisfy someone of their own age. Trouble with me is... Submitted 47 days 18 hours ago.
It Happened Again . . . Mr. Wrong! -
- Octavia HansenI blame myself, I said "Hello." It's a gift . . . a guy who will never get lucky with me not only corners me in a lame conversation, thus keeping me from my actual flirtatious ways with any other man in a two-mile radius, but somehow finagles my number or email outta me (darn this politeness!)!... Submitted 49 days 1 hour ago.
Games Men And Woman Play -
- Octavia HansenOh, you know, men and women have always played games. Some play better than others. Some people are so serious that they play but they have no fun. Some games can be incredibly complicated, to win or lose sometimes means their whole world. Some people play a lot of games. Some people only play... Submitted 49 days 23 hours ago.
Don't Date A Songwriter -- You WILL End Up In A Song -
- Octavia HansenI did not listen, even to myself, so I did. It went South. Then he did. And then I did. The song I wrote is: Now I'm Godzilla (And I'm Stomping Thru The Tokyo Of Your Heart). The story goes: I was a member in a songwriting organization. If you have never experienced this kind of entertainment... Submitted 68 days 4 hours ago.
Why Men With Wives Or Girlfriends Already Tend To Attract More Women - Scot McKay - Dating Coach
I was talking to a friend of mine recently, who brought up a certain infamous phenomenon that I think just about all of us can relate to. “You know, when you’re not getting a whole lot of dates it seems like it’s next to impossible to get a woman to show any interest... Submitted 126 days 23 hours ago.
6 Great Date Movies That You Haven't Thought Of Yet - Scot McKay - Dating Coach
It’s been a couple of years since I suggested some great movies to watch with a woman, so I figured an update was long overdue. Let’s face it. While “dinner and a movie” is a flat-out terrible idea for a first date, that doesn’t mean that either having dinner OR... Submitted 126 days 23 hours ago.
Can You Actually "Win" An Argument With A Woman? -
- Scot McKay - Dating CoachThe other day I had the distinct and thankfully rare displeasure of watching a couple argue in public with each other. My scientific wild guess as to one key reason why this MIGHT be a relatively rare sight to behold is that men and women who wantonly elect to embarrass each other in broad... Submitted 134 days 18 hours ago.
The Lost Art Of Flirting - Octavia Hansen
Ahhhh, flirting. When done correctly, it brightens everyone's day. It is an empty promise, yet it is light and refreshing. The art of flirting is fading away. This is not a tease, where someone's ego is damaged. It is not a serious offer, it is like a bright soap bubble of possibilities. Some... Submitted 137 days 8 hours ago.
Men: Talk To Women, Connect, Get Results - Octavia Hansen
Okay, guys, you're out looking to connect with a woman. You're having a good time. You are surrounded by women and you like the look of all of them. What do you do? How do you talk to them? What do you say? How do you keep their interest? Scary as it is for men, it's easier than you think.... Submitted 138 days 3 hours ago.
Looks Before Brains 'Cause Men See Better Than They Think - Octavia Hansen
Why are men so hung up on looks? In this glamour cesspool of life, let me tell you how women think. I already know how men think, and what they think, or if they think. I'm a gal. I'm tying to be encouraging here. Men are big on looks, the same way women are, because that's all you have to go... Submitted 141 days 6 hours ago.
Okay, 25 years of dating has gotten me nowhere. I take that back -- after dating men in a four state area, tossing away the problems and married guys, a boyfriend is farther away than the Sun. Since any of my relationships have NEVER worked out, and I'm actually not girlfriend material (too much... Submitted 145 days 8 hours ago.
FAQ2 (Pt 2): When Will This End? - Octavia Hansen
Yes, back by popular demand but the last in a series (I'm sure many are tired, but truth is truth), here is another set of Frequently Asked Questions. Please, tell me I'm not the only one who got stuck with this crap falling out of people's (mostly men, sorry!) mouths. This is supposed to be... Submitted 147 days 21 hours ago.
FAQ1: Yes, I Heard You. I Just Don't Believe You Said That. - Octavia Hansen
Now that my dating days are over, I can impart the wisdom of the ages to the younger crowd. There are some women out there, still dating, and seem to like it. I'm surprised, but they are probably very young and everyone's story is new to them. At the start, a lot of things are interesting, but... Submitted 147 days 21 hours ago.
